So this one has been sitting in the draft folder for far to long. Originally created in March of 2013.
From stay at home mommy to bag lady? In February I wrapped up my maternity leave and headed back to the career. After having Mr. D and returning to work the transition was hard. Like super hard every day culminated with me crying and constantly telling Brent about how inadequate I felt. Leaving Little Missy and returning to work has been nearly as difficult but for different reasons. I’ve learned A LOT about myself since being promoted to Mom. Going back to work this time reminded me how much I want to work towards a career that I direct. A career that has the flexibility I envision for our family and these little kiddos. I’m committed to making this dream creative career a reality!
More trying than the transition back to the office has been our switch in daycare providers. For more than two and a half years our son has attended a highly regarded childcare center. We were in love with the environment, his teachers and little friends. Days full of activities, structure and structured learning. Due to a number of factors we decided to move him to an in home settling. I was curious. I was nervous. I was scared. After meeting 0ur new childcare provider I knew my kids would be in the best hand possible. In the end we decided that this decision brings with it so many benefits! Little Missy started first and Mr. D joined her several weeks later.
The transition came along with some challenges. I keep reminding myself it take the average adult months to adjust to big changes I can only imagine how monumental a huge change in routine is for a toddler. As we’ve become much better acquainted with our new routine and friends we’ve all learned a ton along the way. Here’s the five most monumental things I’ve learned from this huge transition:
I’ve learned that my mommy pace isn’t what works for kids {sounds ridiculous I know but this has been a great reminder to slow down}
I’ve learned that leaning on friends and loved ones is an often necessary part of being a mom.
I’ve learned that routine is everything when you’re talking about a toddler {sure I knew this already but there’s always room to improve}
I’ve been reminded what a blessing amazing friendships are {especially when I feel so overwhelmed}
I’ve been reminded of the amazing transformations that can come from prayer and a belief in God!
I’m so relieved and fortunate to have found a new routine. Our current happiness wouldn’t be possible without our wonderful sitter. Her dedication to our family is something I truly will never be able to repay. No day is perfect! Many days are full of surprise and complete randomness! Yet they’re all met with a happy and more relaxed me. Here’s to you finding the best routine for your family.
As we’re about to embark in another new daycare switch I find this post so refreshing and encouraging. There’s something so freeing about recognizing no day will be perfect!