From stay at home mom to bag lady?

So this one has been sitting in the draft folder for far to long.  Originally created in March of 2013.

From stay at home mommy to bag lady?  In February I wrapped up my maternity leave and headed back to the career. After having Mr. D and returning to work the transition was hard.  Like super hard every day culminated with me crying and constantly telling Brent about how  inadequate I felt.  Leaving Little Missy and returning to work has been nearly as difficult but for different reasons.  I’ve learned A LOT about myself since being promoted to Mom.  Going back to work this time reminded me how much I want to work towards a career that I direct.  A career that has the flexibility I envision for our family and these little kiddos.  I’m committed to making this dream creative career a reality!

More trying than the transition back to the office has been our switch in daycare providers.  For more than two and a half years our son has attended a highly regarded childcare center.  We were in love with the environment, his teachers and little friends.  Days full of activities, structure and structured learning.  Due to a number of factors we decided to move him to an in home settling.  I was curious.  I was nervous.  I was scared.  After meeting 0ur new childcare provider I knew my kids would be in the best hand possible.  In the end we decided that this decision brings with it so many benefits!    Little Missy started first and Mr. D joined her several weeks later.

The transition came along with some challenges.  I keep reminding myself it take the average adult months to adjust to big changes I can only imagine  how monumental a huge change in routine is for a toddler.  As we’ve become much better acquainted with our new routine and friends we’ve all learned a ton along the way.  Here’s the five most monumental things I’ve learned from this huge transition:

I’ve learned that my mommy pace isn’t what works for kids {sounds ridiculous I know but this has been a great reminder to slow down}

I’ve learned that leaning on friends and loved ones is an often necessary part of being a mom.

I’ve learned that routine is everything when you’re talking about a toddler {sure I knew this already but there’s always room to improve}

I’ve been reminded what a blessing amazing friendships are {especially when I feel so overwhelmed}

I’ve been reminded of the amazing transformations that can come from prayer and a belief in God!

I’m so relieved and fortunate to have found a new routine.  Our current happiness wouldn’t be possible without our wonderful sitter.  Her dedication to our family is something I truly will never be able to repay.  No day is perfect!  Many days are full of surprise and complete randomness!  Yet they’re all met with a happy and more relaxed me.  Here’s to you finding the best routine for your family.

As we’re about to embark in another new daycare switch I find this post so refreshing and encouraging.  There’s something so freeing about recognizing no day will be perfect!